The world breaks, families fracture, bodies suffer, hearts shatter. It’s all around us and it doesn’t stop at Christmas. Shootings. Diagnoses. Miscarriage. Abandonment. Job loss.
And yet God doesn’t stay far off, distant from our pain. He enters it with us.
The wonder of Christmas is that Jesus left heaven to enter this fractured and hurting world.
The spectacle of Christmas is that the fractured and hurting is right there in Jesus’ family tree.
When we turn the last pages of Malachi, through the silent centuries and to the first pages of the New Testament, it starts with Matthew and Matthew starts with – a list.
A list? We’re tempted to scan these kinds of lists of “begets” and “sons of” to get to the good stuff. But this is the good stuff.
Stick with me because Matthew brings us to the Hope of Christmas in the women of Jesus’ family tree.
“This is the genealogy of Jesus the Messiah, the son of David, the son of Abraham.” Matthew 1:1
It makes sense that Matthew, wanting to prove that Jesus is the Messiah, would start with the Son of Abraham and Son of David.
All the way back in Genesis 3, God had promised the seed of a woman who would crush Satan’s head. But which woman? God narrowed it a bit more when He called Abraham from his pagan family to Himself, promising a descendant of Abraham, when Abraham was childless and Sarah long past childbearing years, would bless all nations on earth.
Centuries later God narrowed it even more. God put David on the throne and promised He would establish the kingdom of his throne forever.
So through 41 generations, Matthew proves Jesus is a descendant of both Abraham and David.
Job done. Enough said.
But Matthew says much more.
Because in a list chock full of patriarchs, Matthew names five women.
Look at Matthew’s list:
Abraham was the father of Isaac,
Isaac the father of Jacob,
Jacob the father of Judah and his brothers,
Judah the father of Perez and Zerah, whose mother was Tamar,
Perez the father of Hezron,
Hezron the father of Ram,
Ram the father of Amminadab,
Amminadab the father of Nahshon,
Nahshon the father of Salmon,
Salmon the father of Boaz, whose mother was Rahab,
Boaz the father of Obed, whose mother was Ruth,
Obed the father of Jesse,
and Jesse the father of King David.
David was the father of Solomon, whose mother had been Uriah’s wife,
…and Jacob the father of Joseph, the husband of Mary, and Mary was the mother of Jesus who is called the Messiah.
Turns out Jesus has quite a HERitage.
Matthew could have listed Sarah or Rebekah, matriarchs in their own right, but instead he lists Tamar, Rahab, Ruth, Bathsheba and Mary.
A widow who played the prostitute.
A Canaanite prostitute.
A Moabite widow.
A widow pregnant by another man.
And a young girl pregnant before marriage.
Yes, Jesus has quite a HERitage. Quite the family tree.
Jesus, born into this hurting and fractured world, came from a long line of hurting, fractured women.
But hurting and fractured isn’t the end of their stories!
As we prepare for Christmas, we’ll take a look at each woman and see what she teaches us about the Hope of Christmas.
Let’s push pause today and let our hearts settle on the grace that Jesus would come not only TO hurting women but THROUGH hurting women.
Pain is never the end of our story. Jesus changes all of that forever.
Find Tamar: Day 2 of the Women in Jesus’ Family Tree here.
Find Rahab: Day 3 of the Women in Jesus’ Family Tree here.
Find Ruth: Day 4 of the Women in Jesus’ Family Tree here.
Find Bathsheba: Day 5 of the Women in Jesus’ Family Tree here.
Dawn Bailey says
Dear Lisa ,
Looking so forward to spending time with Jesus .
My 100 days with Christ .
Praying Gods blessing on you and your family .
Dawn
Lisa Appelo says
So glad you’re doing the 100 Days with Christ study, Dawn!
Rachel Saxon says
Very interesting insight, I’m curious to see this serious of studies unfold.
Lisa Appelo says
One of my favorite studies on the intention of Scripture in listing these women in Jesus’ genealogy.
Jennifer says
Thank you. Thank you so much for writing this, and for sharing it. I don’t know how to tell you how much I needed to see what you understood.
Lisa Appelo says
But God. That has become my life motto because He sovereignly brings beauty where there was ash.
Cynthia says
Agree with Jennifer’s comment..
Come from a background where all the focus is only on one woman!! The Holy Spirit inspired Matthew to include all 5 women in Jesus’ genealogy..so wonderful. Thank you, Lisa.
Lisa Appelo says
It’s incredible, really. God sees us women, cares deeply and rescues us.
Patricia says
Where can we read about all five women? I’ve enjoyed the first two in the series. Thanks!
Lisa Appelo says
They are coming this week! The next one tomorrow and then Thursday, Friday and finally on Monday, Lord willing.
Jayne says
Thank you Lisa, exactly what I need right now!
Love the insights.
God bless you for this
Aleidah says
This is awesome Lisa, thank you for taking your time to share the bible in detail. You know it gives me great joy to know that my God gives Grace even to those of us who think we do not deserve it.Gives me more hope of trusting in him even more
Carmen says
Thank you for this list of great matriarchs! Jacob was the father of Joseph, who rescued his family and people from famine and was sold into Egypt. His bones were carried out during the Exodus. Many years before Joseph , Mary’s husband.
Joanne Hock says
I am so looking forward to receiving your materials! I have so enjoyed what you have published here! God is SO good, and it’s very obvious He’s using you too in furthering His Kingdom and healing hearts and broken lives!
To Him be the Glory!